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Some parents are doing a modified version of natural parenting called ‘attachment parenting.’ \u00a0Mayim Bialik has written a book (Beyond the Sling<\/a><\/em>)which discusses attachment parenting in great detail using her experience and that \u00a0of her husband in raising their two sons, along with some anecdotes of their friends. \u00a0And, yes, this is written by ‘Amy’ from the Big Bang Theory. She is an actual neuroscientist with a PhD:\u00a0she studied the hormones of attachment\u00a0. \u00a0Both her education and experience provide credibility for advancing the idea that attachment parenting is the way children should be parented.<\/span><\/p>\n As can be seen in a comparison of what I wrote in Natural Parenting<\/em><\/a> and what Bialik writes in Beyond the Sling<\/em><\/a>, \u00a0we have many points of agreement, particularly that breast is best and co-sleeping is a great idea that encourages breast-feeding on demand.<\/p>\n If you are thinking about getting pregnant or already young children, I recommend this book on attachment parenting as the natural way to parent with 3 BIG caveats.<\/p>\n 1. A vegan diet is not natural for humans<\/a>. We need a diet with about 20% animal protein. The reason her kids nurse for 4 – 5 years is that they NEED the animal protein of her milk in order to be healthy. Clearly, she enjoys this type of attachment so much that she has not considered the biological reason her children are nursing well beyond the usual age of weaning.<\/span><\/p>\n 2. Homeopathy ‘treatments’<\/a> are psychological (placebo), not physical. \u00a0If they do no harm and make you feel better psychologically, I suppose they are not a problem. \u00a0However, if you think they will actually cure an illness, think again.<\/span><\/p>\n 3. I cannot believe that a neuroscientist would so foolish as not to vaccinate her children! The non-vaccinating crowd is too young (under 55) to have lived through the horrors of epidemic diseases and do not realize that their ‘choice’ could have devastating consequences not only for their own kids, but for babies, the elderly, and immuno-compromised individuals who cannot be vaccinated <\/a>and who will\u00a0become ill when exposed to her unvaccinated kids.<\/span><\/p>\n Those caveats aside, much of Bialik’s advice on parenting is very good. \u00a0Unfortunately, modern\u00a0work situations do not provide the flexibility that Bialik, as an actress, has to fully implement attachment parenting. \u00a0She realizes this as she gave up the opportunity for an academic career because it would make attachment parenting almost impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n Women who want or need to work, but lack the flexibility that Bialik has, encounter tremendous difficulties in being the parents they would like to be. \u00a0Attachment parenting is not even an option. \u00a0Liz O’Donnell makes this clear in her book Mogul, Mom, & Maid: The Balancing Act of the Modern Woman.<\/a>\u00a0<\/em>Twenty-five years after The Second Shift<\/em><\/a> was published, women who work outside the home or as entrepreneurs are still doing the vast, vast majority of housework and childcare. This has to change. O’Donnell uses the stories of a wide variety of women to detail the problems and outline the solutions. One of the things that needs to change is the idea that childcare is a woman’s issue. It is a parental issue. Businesses and the school system must be modified so that both men and women can be fully-involved parents.<\/span><\/p>\n Attachment\u00a0and\u00a0natural parenting would have more of a chance to occur\u00a0if parents in the United States were given paid maternal<\/a> and paternal<\/a> leave, as is the case in all other advanced countries in the world. \u00a0In fact, there are only 3 other countries in the entire world besides the US that do not provide paid maternal leave. \u00a0The United States also needs to provide better childcare options for parents. Having businesses and schools provide on-site childcare<\/a> would be a tremendous help. \u00a0Expanding the childcare tax credit <\/a>and updating the 1976 reimbursement levels to 2014 levels would also make life easier for parents. \u00a0It may also make sense to move from\u00a0a state that does not\u00a0support<\/a>\u00a0working mothers.<\/p>\n Natural parenting has been effective for millions of years. \u00a0If we want physically and psychologically healthy children, we need to modify modern society to enable natural parenting.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n